ASK JASON!

This is the first time that I can't seem to find enough minutes in the day to respond to all of the emails, blog comments and even snail mail that comes through my little home office on a daily basis. (Not because there is more than usual, but because I'm busier than usual.) Rest assured, everything is being read even if I don't respond and those of you with questions, I'm saving some of them for these new "ASK JASON!" entries.

So, here goes the first batch. Just a few from the last couple of days. Wish me luck!


Who is the nicest person you have met in porn? - Anonymous.

Blake Riley. xo L, J.

why do u sometimes go so long without updating your News Desk? - The Cool One

Well, recently because I had a cold, but sometimes because I get busy or because I just can't stand devoting any more time than I already do to porn. xo L, J.

Have you ever seen or met my ex Arik Travis? - Eddie Q.

I meet a lot of people every week. Don't remember him though. xo L, J.

Will you post a sexy picture of yourself in my comments section on MySpace? - Keith

Probably not. xo L, J.

I have considered killing myself. I have considered checking myself into rehab. I have considered running away. No matter what I do, my 26th birthday will be a disaster. I WANT a party. I WANT friends to come over and regale me with presents. I WANT the ice cream, cake, and other trappings that we associate with birthday parties. I WANT fucking Mylar balloons with HAPPY BIRTHDAY on them. I don't feel like I belong in this world. I want to belong. I want to be welcomed, unconditionally and fervently, warts and all. I want to feel like I matter to me, to my family and friends, to God, the gay community, and to the world at large. If I don't have those things, it will be as if I never existed. - Alex

"I want to feel like I matter to me." ... Start there. Start with the mirror. It's the only thing you have control over and when you take back your control, you will no longer feel like a victim. And by the way, everyone's birthdays almost always suck. Who gets mylar balloons?! Mine will be spent on a plane this year. xo L, J.

i love ur site and ur show. btw, do you ever wear tube socks? it's tight when guys wear them!!! - Jon.

Jon, I have a feeling you'll be thrilled to know I often wear tube socks. xo L, J.

Do you think Roman Heart will do your two new shows at Here and MJs? Do the guys like to fool around in the women's bathroom afterwards like they did with you at Mickys? That would be a great way to pay homage to them. Good luck. Bye. - Los Wolfes

I'm sure he will eventually. Roman actually stopped by Here Lounge last night briefly. No making out in the bathrooms though. Not for me, at least! lol... Ah, those were the days! xo L, J.

Is the new boyfriend James Lent? - Anonymous.

No, it's not James. And I don't know if I even want to use the label "boyfriend." We're still exploring and getting to know each other. We've just taken each other off the market while we do. xo L, J.

I like seeing you at Other Side on Fri nights. What are your favorites to sing there and what are you going to sing there this week? - Greg WH

Thanks, Greg! My favorites totally change every few weeks like they're on some sort of rotation with my heart but right now they are "Live To Tell," "There Are Worse Things I Could Do" and "Mein Herr." Not sure what all I'm performing on Friday, but I know we're planning on debuting two new ones: "Hanky Panky" and "Come In From The Rain." xo L, J.

Wow! Jason just looking at your schedule I am EXHAUSTED! How do you do it?Keeping it Fun and Real I guess,,Kudos for Stamina (& Talent) - Dewayne

Thanks, D. The truth is, I don't do it! lol... Something always seems to not get done. But I'm trying! ;-) xo L, J.

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