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What's the deal with comment approval on the "News Desk"? New rules? No negative posts? - Anonymous

Negative posts are fine, spew your vitriol all you want, but the rule is you have to contribute something. You can't just say some porn star is a loser or some movie was a piece of crap. Tell me why you think he's a loser or why you think it's a piece of crap and your comment will be posted.

Why didn't you ever do porn? - Stevie Rulz

For one thing, I've never really thought a mass quantity of people would be interested in watching me have sex. But overall, being on so many sets, I just saw how hard the work was (no pun intended) and how unglamorous it is and how very, very little it pays compared to all other jobs in the industry. I was making more money than they were so I felt like it would be a step backwards. There was a period of time when I first started that I was very torn about that decision though. I would wonder on a daily basis if that was supposed to be my path because I got a lot of offers and knew I really wanted the fame back then. Not doing it though is probably one of the best decisions I ever made. It's not something you live down. Going on auditions or singing at nightclubs and getting recognized as the boy who interviews them for a living is hard enough for people to see past.

I have to thankyou, it was onjasoncurious.com that i furst discovered Seth Dickens, what a hottie. Great site, Rosco. - Rosco

Yes! Aka Cameron Sage! Well then I'll have to thank David Forest for introducing me to him! I haven't seen him in forever, but always enjoyed interviewing him and hanging out with him.

i'm in a really bad financial place right now -- really bad. i would never do porn because im an actor but im seriously thinking about escorting. do you know how i could escort very discreetly? - Anonymous

RentBoy.com can be incredibly discreet depending on how you use it. Email Brandon Baker at brandon@rentboy.com and he will get you started.

thinking about you, reading your sites, watching your clips... can become very time consuming.... lol... i really dont get it... what is it about you???? - ALEX.

I saved this one just to be able to read it again later when I was doing the "ASK" post today. Wasn't going to post it but I think I will. Balances out the negative. So sweet and so need to hear things like that to keep me going, Alex. As long as you're entertained, I'll continue being an entertainer.

So i know you're Mr. Celebrity an' all, but do your friends even KNOW how talented you are when it comes to scooping ice cream? I'm jus' askin'... - Tessa

LOL!!! Tessa! Here's to the TCBY posse from Sarasota, Florida. I was, what? 16? Do you remember that hot guy who used to work there with us? With the long hair? He used to show me his pubes when I asked him to and I think he let me touch his nipple once. That was about all the action I was getting back then. Do you have any idea how much ice cream I would eat on a daily basis there? And I always stole the gummy bears! I would take home like 5 pound bags of gummy bears. Insanity.

What happened to the Chris Crocker nude pics you had posted on yoru site? - Anonymous

Chris posted a message saying they were taken when he was 17. I got an email from someone claiming to be the photographer of those photos who tells me it's not true and he would never shoot someone who was 17 or else he'd be in jail right now for having taken them and that would be the real news story. Also, a mutual friend tells me it is something Crocker's manager cooked up. I don't really know or care. Bottom line is that Chris seems to want them to disappear and I am a HUGE fan of his so I pulled them as soon as I read his post. I was also very careful, just because of his Internet celebrity, to not post them in our member's section because I didn't want anyone to think we were making money off of his images. I only posted them in the free blog feed.

Why are you so egotistical to think anyone cares about your crush on [straight male porn star] Mikey Butders? This is breaking news because? - Anonymous.

I didn't think anyone cared actually but hours after I mentioned how much I loved him on my show, it became a headline on AdultFYI.com and tons of sites took it from there and made it a headline on their own. So, somebody cares. *shrugs* Some people are coming to my JasonCurious.com site to see "Jason" and live vicariously through him and his odd job. Some are coming just for the porn star news and interviews and could care less about me. It's not a difficult concept to get your head around. But again, the site is called JasonCurious.com, not "Porn Star Whatever The Hell." If you're not curious about Jason and his life, you probably shouldn't be there. That's what my site has been about since 2001. Me. And my life working with the porn peeps. There's plenty of other sites out there for you to just get the news of the porn world told to ya straight.

Wow, an objective review on this website that is not ass kissing? You must have been dissed by Collin O'Neal. - Anonymous.

Oh, Anonymous. I've never met or even spoken to Collin. I just didn't like his movie. I have praised movies on my site by people who have fucked me over. I have slammed movies that were directed by some of my best friends. Hell, I've even slammed movies from companies I was working as a publicist for at the time! I have a core group of people who, when I say a movie is good, all purchase the movie through the affiliate links we provide. In order to continue having that group trust me and in order to keep it growing, it's not something I can let "personality politics" interfere with. Not that there were any between me and Collin to begin with. I know nothing about him really and have never even exchanged an email with the guy. I'm sure he's very cool.

your myspace says there's too much clinging to peak. peak? what does you mean? - Steve.

It's from the Bjork song I posted last week so I didn't write it but for me it means that we put too much pressure on ourselves to create perfection, for every moment to be a highlight.

Oh, Jason. Jason, Jason, Jason.You've finally done it. You were pushing it anyway with your vicarious living through pornstars because you couldn't or refused to find real love or contentment in life. You were pushing it anyway by years of sexploits with random hookups and pornstars, gloating about it - and then shifting 180 to social and political commentary....as if anyone would take you seriously after years of drunken hookups.You were pushing it anyway by being 'host' for monthly commentators that mysteriously disappeared, as did many of your 'clients,' probably for mixing business with pleasure.You were pushing it anyway by trying to be a singer/actor and being the typical little fag in pushing the 'divas.'But now you've finally crossed that line.Chris Crocker has talent?Are you fucking kidding me?This attention grabbing drama queen has talent?Oh. Wait. Sounds a lot like a web host.You've lost all credibility.I know....leave Britney alone. Give me a break. - Anonymous.

Chris Crocker has proven through a year of YouTube ( www.youtube.com/itschriscrocker/ ) and MySpace ( www.myspace.com/itschriscrocker/ ) clips that he is a hilarious comedian and a talented actor. So I've lost all credibility because he makes me laugh? Wow. Well, personally, considering your narrow-mindedness, your cred-approval is not one that I was really seeking to begin with.

I would hope to God that in ten years, one's priorities change and they grow as a person, becoming more socially, politically and spiritually conscious. It's called a "slut phase" for a reason. It's usually just a phase in a person's life. I let all of myself be exposed when I started this "Diary" at the JasonCurious site. The good, the bad and the ugly. Everything from good samaritan acts to messy drunken rages. While I don't get into the specifics of my personal life anymore, I continue to own every step, every mistake, every low and every high.

People tend to put labels on others: "He's the funny one." "He's the whore." "He's so at peace." Unfortunately, because we are often so desperate to define ourselves, we take those labels and wear them to the point that we forget there are other sides of ourselves, other talents, other colors that exist. Or even if we know that our friends love us because of who we are and how we act with them, we then feel like we can't change who we are or how we behave for fear that they will think we're acting "weird" or maybe not agree with us or get along with us as well. It in turn stunts your personal growth.

The idea that someone can be open about their sexual exploits or working in adult entertainment and still be politically active, spiritually aware, a talented actor/singer/host, in touch with God, etc. is something that I have really enjoyed exposing people to. About a year ago, I started refusing to just play the "role" that a lot of people wanted me to play. I tore off the label and without it was forced to find myself. What I found was incredibly complex and multi-dimensional and it has evoked a multitude of reactions, like this one for example.

Ironically, Chris Crocker has found the same happening to him lately according to his latest written MySpace blog. Coming to Hollywood for business meetings about his own TV show, he found he was being asked to play a "role" for a reality series instead of being allowed to be himself. Even in interviews, they wanted him to play "crazy" or be "the Britney boy." What's so amazing about Chris is that at 19 years old, he already has such a strong sense of self that he refuses to do that.

So to you, I'm sorry that in your jealous haze you see my past posts as gloating, but dude... I'm just living my life. I've been documenting my life, career and personal growth for the past several years. Exposing my readers to the many different sides of myself has clearly gotten under your skin. Ask yourself why. I would suggest taking off whatever label you've been given today. Learn to start defining yourself as you truly are and not how people see you. You can do it too, ya know?

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